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Choosing a Life Partner Wisely
When you’re looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, it’s important that you choose wisely.
You’re not only choosing the person you will spend your life with, but by choosing them, you’re automatically choosing the future that presents itself by being with this person.
Your life choice must lead you to happiness, not to regrets. If you choose the wrong person to spend the rest of your life, you are killing any semblance of happiness in your life.
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We all make some pretty bad choices in life.
However, the more you continue to make them, the more heartaches you will experience until you give up on the desire to live a better life.
You can change the trajectory of your life and your future by choosing the right person because your life, happiness, and joy depend on it.
As a professional matchmaker, one of the questions my clients ask me is: how do I know if I’m choosing the right person?
Is there a way to know whether the person I’m choosing now will be the person I will be thankful to have in my life decades from now?
Unfortunately, while these are all valid questions, there’s no one answer to them all.
We can fall in love with someone, but that doesn’t mean that they’re the person we will be content with for the rest of our lives.
Just because you can fall in love with someone doesn’t mean you’re compatible with them.
It only says that the parts of your body that are responsible for attraction and body chemistry work well!
Furthermore, when we’re in love there’s a high chance we will say, do, or act in ways that may not reflect or align with our rationality.
The best way to know if you’re choosing the right person is to pay attention to their behavior or how they live.
You can use the part of you that’s responsible for rational and logical thought to figure out if the person we think we’re in love with is suitable for us in the long run as a life partner.
Listen, I’m not asking you to disregard your feelings and become mechanical.
I’m just saying that the feeling of being in love is temporary and once you’re down from cloud nine, you have to find something tangible to fall back on.
Some of the ways you can tell if you will be happy with someone include:
- Having an easy connection where you can always find something to talk about without a struggle
- You both have similar interests that you enjoy taking part in together
- You both have the same drive, and your intellects are complimentary of each other
- There’s mutual respect for each other’s life choices and decisions
- You can both criticize each other without feeling judged
- They allow you to be who you are
- You can laugh and have fun together
- They’re a good human
- Ensuring you’re not settling for less with them
- Your communication is compatible
- You can spend lots of time together
Looking for more help on dating and relationships? Read my other articles under Dating/Relationship, Making& Maintaining a Connection and Matchmaking.
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