July 11, 2022

How Do You Know When Someone Likes You and Wants to Take You Seriously?


Dating can be a little confusing. You may think you know what someone’s true feelings towards you are, then they give you a signal that might mean something totally different.

This is why it’s essential to know what signs to look out for or be able to read the lines and figure out if your crush wants the same thing you do.

Of course, you could go ahead and ask them directly, but what fun would that be?

Also, just because they will give you a verbal answer doesn’t mean it resonates with what is truly in their heart.

Even so, knowing whether someone truly likes you and wants to take things between you seriously isn’t as easy as we’d like to think.

If you’re looking for the real deal, this article is for you. I will help you look out for the subtle and not-so-subtle signs that a potential partner wants to take things a little further.

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Without further ado, here’s how you can tell.

  • They will make their intentions known

Anyone who is serious about you will tell you that they are. They are transparent about why they want to get to know you, because they want you to get to know them as well.

Anyone who likes you and wants to pursue a serious relationship with you will not be flakey in their words and actions. They will always say it as it is.

  • They reciprocate your interest

One of the fastest ways of telling whether someone likes you and wants to be serious with you is to pay attention to their interest.

If they’re constantly flaking on plans you made to spend time together, that’s a red flag.

However, if you’re putting in energy and time to grow the connection and they reciprocate that, you can be sure of their intent to take things to the next level.

Even though they might not do the same things you do, pay attention to their behavior. It’s the small, seemingly unnoticeable gestures that you should pay attention to.

  • They give you eye contact when you speak

This might seem like a sign you can disregard, but you shouldn’t.

Anyone who looks you directly in the eye when you’re talking to them shows that they’re interested in what you have to say and are present in the moment.

Not only does it show that they are paying attention to what you’re saying, it also shows that they’re interested in building intimacy with you.

  • They check in on you

Whether you’re going through something huge like dealing with a loss or something small like having a normal workday, anyone that is interested in you will constantly reach out.

When they do this, you know that they’re thinking about you, and are invested in your responses to what happens around you or your mood. They’re interested in finding out how you’re doing because they genuinely care for you.


Looking for more help on dating and relationships? Read my other articles under Dating/Relationship, Making& Maintaining a Connection and Matchmaking.

If you would like to discover more to help you on your journey of finding love, I’ve created a FREE Success Guide to dating to help you. If you would like to learn more send me an email or schedule a call and I’ll be happy to help.

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