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Men are not all the same
Briana used to think that all men were the same. She dated one guy after another, and they all seemed to want the same thing: sex. They would say sweet things to her, take her out on dates, and then try to pressure her into having sex. she felt used and alone. But then she met Sean. He was different from any other guy she had ever dated.
He actually listened to her when she talked and respected her decision to wait until she was ready to have sex. They started dating, and she found herself falling in love with him. He showed her that not all men are the same. He was kind, gentle, and loving.
Sean treated her with respect and made her feel like she was the only woman in the world. They’re still dating and feels he is the man for her. Sean showed Briana that not all men are the same.
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Men are not all the same- there are some good ones out there
There are many good men out there who will respect you and treat you well. Don’t write them all off because of a few bad experiences. Good men will make it know they are good men from your initial meeting.
They will listen to you, engage in thoughtful conversations, and be respectful of your wishes. Good men will also respect your decisions, including waiting to have sex until you are ready. A good man will become your best friend and make you feel like you are the only woman in the world.
Sean is a good example of a man who is different from the others
Sean is a great example of a good man. He listened to Briana and respected her decision to wait until she was ready to have sex. He treated her with respect and made her feel like she was the only woman in the world.
These are the qualities you should look for in a partner. Someone who will listen to you, respect your decisions, and make you feel special. Sean showed Briana that there are good men out there and that she deserves to be treated well.
Take your time getting to know someone before you let them in
Take your time getting to know someone before you let them in. Don’t rush into things. Get to know the person first and make sure they are someone you can trust before you take things to the next level.
Don’t let anyone pressure you into doing something you’re not ready for If someone is pressuring you to do something you’re not comfortable with, it’s time to walk away. They don’t respect your wishes and they don’t deserve your time. You should only be with someone who respects your decision and is willing to wait until you’re ready.
Layout what you want to ensure you both are on the same page
It’s important to be on the same page before moving forward. Talk about your wishes and expectations before things go too far. This way, there are no surprises, and you can both make sure you’re comfortable with what is happening.
If your partner isn’t willing to talk about the dynamics of where things are going, that’s a red flag. They may not be interested in a committed relationship, and that’s not what you’re looking for. You deserve someone who is willing to have an open and honest conversation about where things are going.
If someone is pressuring you into something you don’t want, they’re not worth your time
If someone is pressuring you into having sex, they’re not worth your time. They don’t respect your wishes and they don’t deserve your time. You should only be with someone who respects your decision and is willing to wait until you’re ready.
Sex is a big decision, and it should be something you do when you’re both ready and excited about it, not something you do because you feel like you have to.
It may be surprising to you, but there are more good men out there then there are men who want to waste your time. My female clients can attest to that.
If you find yourself in a position where you thought all men were the same, take another chance and give someone who may be different a try. The results just might pleasantly surprise you. And like my client’s tell me all the time, “It’s worth it.”