July 11, 2022

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Qualities Men Look for In a Match

As a professional matchmaker, many women come to me asking the same question over and over again.

“What qualities do men look for in a match?”

While not everyone is the same and most people look for unique qualities that would match their needs or preferences, there are general qualities that seem to be a big deal to the single guys.

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I’ve put them down for you in a way you can understand. Don’t worry if you don’t have all of them. It only means that you have space to learn attractive or beneficial habits. Read on!


Ladies, loyalty is an important thing to have if you want to date a high-quality man. Being loyal and committed speaks volumes into your character.

It wouldn’t go down well with any man (or woman) to be in a relationship with someone who is still seeing other people on the downlow.


Ladies, men are drawn to loving, kind, caring, and thoughtful women. It’s ok to do stuff for your man just because you love him and for no other reason.

Men love women that smile and make them smile back. It shows that you’re warm and loving. That is the kind of woman men want to be with.

Physically fit

Men like women that know what it means to be healthy. It’s not only beneficial to your health, but to your relationship as well.

Take care of yourself, eat well, and work out. Being fit and healthy will do a lot for your self-confidence, which will in turn be attractive to any man.

Fun personality

Any man will always look for the playful side of a woman.

Men (most of them) work hard, are serious in their dealings, and generally have to put up a lot from the world.

This is why they look for a woman that can make them smile when things are hard. While you’re searching for a man with a great sense of humor, he’s also looking for the same thing.

Couples should be able to play jokes and be playful around each other. Laughing together is an excellent bonding technique.

Family Oriented

Just because you aren’t close to your family or they’re abusive and you had to set yourself apart doesn’t mean that you cannot be or aren’t family oriented.

Even so, men admire women that can value each side of the family. Just like you, they value someone who can make a healthy, strong connection with their family and friends.

Financially independent

A healthy relationship is made up of two people with their own desires, goals, and dreams.

Men respect women that can take care of them, or when called, can help them out too. A woman that can take care of her own bills and secure the bag for herself is attractive!


If there’s one thing that men find to be a turn of, it’s someone that tries to be someone else. Always be the best version of yourself you can possibly be. You are attractive as you are!

Looking for more help on dating and relationships? Read my other articles under Dating/Relationship, Making& Maintaining a Connection and Matchmaking.

If you would like to discover more to help you on your journey of finding love, I’ve created a FREE Success Guide to dating to help you. If you would like to learn more send me an email or schedule a call and I’ll be happy to help.

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